Men don’t automatically think you’re unattractive…but there are certain things you can do or say that will make you appear unattractive to them. Ladies, remember that first impressions really do leave an impact. Here are 15 things men find unattractive in women–but probably won’t tell you.
1. Being sloppy drunk
Men can’t stand seeing this. It shows that you have no self-control. Don’t be drinking so much that you’re passing out, vomiting or acting out-of-control.
2. Acting rude or mean
This is an automatic out for a lot of guys. Sure, you may be pretty, but if you’re a rude person, then it just isn’t worth it to them.
3. Women who yell
We understand that sometimes you need to talk loudly. But, if you’re prone to yelling, whether it’s in a fight, on the phone, or at a concert, I definitely won’t be into it. And guys seriously hate girls who scream.
Don’t be impatient with him or anyone else. This goes back to yelling. Little girls are impatient, yell and throw a fit. Women wait and figure things out.
Men like happy, positive women. So don’t complain about the lack of service at a restaurant or how long you had to wait in a line. Show your upbeat personality.
Don’t be immature. Don’t be a baby. Act like a grown woman and he’ll respect you even more.
7. Random hair cuts you didn’t warn us about
Heads up if you have long hair but want to get a pixie cut--let you guy know ahead of time and ask his opinion. No, you shouldn’t style your hair based on what a guy wants…but you also don’t want him to find you unattractive when you show up with all your hair chopped off…food for thought.
8. Acting like a teenage drama queen
Men don’t like drama. They would rather just put their hands up and back away slowly. So, don’t be dramatic and don’t play games with him. Just be you.
Guys can’t stand women who think they know everything and have to let you know too. You might be incredibly smart, but you don’t have to have the perfect answer or solution to everything.
10. Attention needy
If you have to be the center of attention all the time, it makes a guy feel like he’s not going to be important enough to receive any attention either.
11. Women who think they really do own the world
Just because you’re having a bad day doesn’t mean you can treat other people as if they are beneath you.
12. Looking scary different when you don’t have makeup on
You don’t want the guy who stayed the night to be terrified of you come morning time. This doesn’t mean you get up before him to cake your face back on. It means you wear light makeup that enhances instead of covering up your beauty.
13. Frequent swearing
Men like ladies with a little class so dropping the f-bomb in every sentence is a turn-off and does not show how sophisticated you really are.
No one wants to be told over and over again that they are doing something wrong. Choose your battles ladies. If they leave the toilet seat up, quietly put it down. If they don’t shave for a couple of days, deal with it. Let him hog the remote control once in awhile. Remember, there are probably things they don’t like about you too.
Don’t ever drop your girlfriends and family for a man. Being too dependent on your man to make you happy is a turnoff. Expecting him to change to meet your needs is also very unattractive. They want to be loved for who they are.